Upgrade Your Mind

Live Your Best Life

Your brain, conscious and unconscious mind work together like a computer, its operating system and its apps.  Your brain is the hardware, the computer.  Your conscious mind are the applications like the web browser, word processors or spreadsheets.  Your subconscious mind is the operating system – Windows or iOS.   When everything is aligned and working together, you easily can reach your goals.  But when the subconscious mind is running a script you don’t realize you have, you have the knowledge and skill to reach your goals, but you can’t manage to do what you know how to do to reach them. When subconscious and conscious minds are at odds, the subconscious mind always wins.  The good news is that just like your computer’s operating system, you can upgrade your subconscious scripts.  That's where I come in.


My Story

I’ve spent the past 30 years sharing stories for government agencies and corporations with international, national and local media, as well as with financial and industry analysts and other influencers. These stories landed customers, enhanced stock prices, garnered cooperation from partners, and celebrated and guided employees. It was fun! Until it wasn’t. Until I gave so much, I had no energy left to give anyone – ever the overachiever, I burned out not just once, but twice.

What did I learn from all of this? The stories we tell ourselves are FAR more important than any story we tell anyone else. The stories about what we should and shouldn’t do. The stories about we can and can’t do. The stories about whether or not we are good enough, smart enough, connected enough, pretty enough, thin enough or worth enough to be loved or to get we want in life. The stories where we can’t trust others or ourselves, where we are harshly judged by others or ourselves, where we are rejected or reject others first, and where we are abandoned or abandon others. The stories we formed about ourselves to survive our childhoods regardless of our circumstances. The stories that trigger the small child in each of us when we are hurt as adults.

Instead of allowing these old stories to define me and drive my actions, I’ve reframed and changed my stories, healing the small child inside of me and changing my life. What If Transformation, LLC, was born from my desire to share the same tools to help government and military leaders become better leaders by changing the stories they tell themselves and others.


Change Your Mindset

Change Your Life

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Success Mindset

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What If?

What if all this time, all this struggle, has been leading you to a beautiful chapter in you life?

What if everything does work out, even if it doesn't seem like it right now?

What if who I become is who I needed all long?

What if all of this hard work leads to amazing things?

What if you replaced negativity with optimism?

Would your thoughts and behavior change, too? 

I believe  so.



Rave Reviews

What Clients Have Said


RTT was a tremendous experience for me. It was more effective than years of cognitive behavioral therapy. It opened my eyes to crux of the issue — when it came out of my mouth. The recording especially was powerful and helpful. I still listen to it during times of distress to remind me of the lessons I learned. I already recommended this to a few friends, one who already took advantage and others who are planning to do so. It is hard to put into words how powerful this experience was for me.
Without Nancy Harrity however, I don’t think the experience would have been quite so powerful. She really took the time to get to the root and get me to “admit” to myself truths and to minimize the destructive programming that my brain had for many years. She’s a consummate professional through the whole process. She made me feel comfortable and it was clear that she was very knowledgeable about RTT and all its ins and outs. I personally would not want to do RTT if it wasn’t for Nancy and have recommended her multiple times. I know I will continue on my RTT journey to continue re-programming some information in my mind that simply isn’t correct and needs to be corrected. I will be doing this with Nancy, and soon!

Maja Stevanovich

About Rapid Transformational Coaching

As as Advanced Rapid Transformational Coach, I use Rapid Transformational Therapy to work with you to address your past and coaching to help you move forward.  I use hypnosis to access the subconscious mind (which remembers EVERYTHING) to find the source of an issue and then use a combination of other techniques to reframe your interpretation of the source/event to one that serves you better. Taken together, this approach helps you quickly, in one to three sessions for most issues.  The best part is this can be done in a couple of hours over Zoom, so you do not have to travel or take a lot of time away from your life.

Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT) is a scientific hybrid therapy that offers unparalleled results; incorporating the most beneficial components of Hypnotherapy, NLP & Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to quickly, effectively, and permanently create the change you seek.

Developed by the highly acclaimed Marisa Peer, who has fine tuned this method over 30 years, RTT is designed to access the subconscious mind, the part of our mind that holds onto all of your past experiences and beliefs until you can make sense of them. RTT helps you to quickly and easily trace the root cause of your mental or physical issues, patterns, and behaviors, and then to release them once and for all.


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